what doesnt kill us makes us stronger.

boysboysboys. the subject we cannot elimiate as much as we want to. Now that im currently taking relational communications, I feel as though I am a relationship expert and i have all the answers to your questions. However, I am guilty for not practicing what I preach. Relationships is just like politics, makes no sense but nevertheless, still happening in this world.

I want to touch on a particular subject this evening. this a bit controversial, contradicting, confusing- and all the complex C words you can fit in here. Moving on. why that topic right? ah my friends, I seem to have alot of people in my life (including me) who confuses over the meaning of moving on.

What exactly IS moving on... ?

Its so easy to mention just move on. How do you exactly move on? I mean, do we just forget about our exes and pretended they never existed? or do we run and play in traffic, get ourselves into a coma then wake up not remembering anything (thats the best way, but not a good recommendation) ok ill cut the chase short. Do we ever move on? Is it even possible to move on?

Here's a definition for you: moving on is not forgetting about the person, its simply putting the person aside and focusing on other things/people. because you can never forget someone. ever.

Here's a scenario for you. You crash this awesome party right, meet all these random gorgeous men, play little beerpong/twister/spin the bottle when you're mind and body are completely intoxicated. do the nasty (whatever your definition is) and think omg you are having the best night of your life, why would you ever need [insert ex/crush/johnny depp] when you have all these other boys right?

my ladies, this wonderful slutty sensation only lasts a while, depending on how wasted you are.

Towards the end of the night, when you're drained, adrenaline rush has died down, feet hurt and minds busting, ...basically when you suddenly have this crazy moodswing and become emo, and reality gets back into your system, you know what happens. its an ultimately shitty feeling thats unexplainable.

this is research, my friends. not on fucking ebsco host, but real life research. so, if you feel this way, you're not the only one i assure you.

but you know what? sometimes we'd rather do this than face reality. reality is brutal and painful. but we come out stronger, dont we? stronger to face harder obstacles maybe?

sometimes we dont get what we want.

thats not true. the truth is

sometimes we refuse to get what we want because once we get it, we dont want it.